Monday, May 13, 2013

Quit Whining! (Ways to Hand Over Control) - Lessons from Edgar pt. 2


Recap
In part one of this series, which you can read here, I talked about the need to hand over control to a God who sees the bigger picture. 

New Question
The question then becomes, "How do I do that?" If you're like me, you're saying, "Give me something practical to work on!" Well, here it is (along with another picture of Edgar...apparently I am that dog parent). 

The first two nights we had Edgar were awful. We slept less than three hours both nights. (All of you parents right now are probably grinning and thinking about the future blog posts where I tell you about how I am getting no sleep with our child!)

Edgar would just sit in his crate and whine! High pitched. Constant. Echoing throughout the house! Our neighbors even told us that they could hear him from their living room. Annoying! 

Thoughts
I realized in the days after that I whine to God...a lot. Most of the time it's indirectly. I don't even take the time to whine to His face, I whine to those around me about the frustration and anger in my life. Thankfully, God is so loving and patient that He doesn't respond to my whining by grabbing the back of my neck and saying, "No! Bad Human!" 

God asks this of us:

Truth

"So here’s what I want you to do, God helping you: Take your everyday, ordinary life—your sleeping, eating, going-to-work, and walking-around life—and place it before God as an offering. Embracing what God does for you is the best thing you can do for him. Don’t become so well-adjusted to your culture that you fit into it without even thinking. Instead, fix your attention on God. You’ll be changed from the inside out. Readily recognize what he wants from you, and quickly respond to it. Unlike the culture around you, always dragging you down to its level of immaturity, God brings the best out of you, develops well-formed maturity in you." - Romans 12:1-2 The Message

Edgar has learned that his crate is a safe and peaceful place. He is even rewarded when he heads in there without having to be picked up.

Living in God's will is safe and peaceful. Not safe in a physical, mental, or economical way, but safe in the only way that really matters long-term, spiritually. Peaceful because when you're living for God, you know you're living for God. His Word gives us that confidence. It grants us the permission and presents us with the challenge to be who God made us to be. Which is ultimately what is best for us. 

So, (name goes here), quit your whining...and give to God. 








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